note syphilis <i>a community has some rules, and even if they are not written down anywhere, they exist</i><br><br>If my Indonesian experience taught me anything, it's that the unwritten rules that (you and) I see are not necessarily seen by people from other cultures. (That's probably the <b>only</b> point I'm trying to make.)<br><br>Cheers,<br>Rob 576774 576828