I've be frequenting PM daily for about a month now and have receive a lot of help from the people here. One thing that I've found interesting is how few flames I have come across (yes, there are some).
I have yet to have someone tell me to RTFD, even when they quote from some. This is really nice since instead of getting an earfull for asking an ignorant (not stupid) question, I now have a lot more places to look for my answers--yes, learning where to look can take as long as long to learn as how to program well.
So, here's a toast to all those who have enough self-confidence to help rather than flame.