Personally, this era of political correctness is starting to grate on me. A spade is a spade. Beating around the bush to spare someone's feelings (or avoid their wrath) is not productive.
in reply to Re^2: So I'm in a bit of a quandary
in thread So I'm in a bit of a quandary
I'm not saying that we should flay the person in a hail of ridicule. We have to be able to tell the truth and have people accept it in a dispassionate way. People need to learn to be more objective.
Sorry, I'll get of the soap box now...