I would love to see you write a meditation on this. DB abstraction layers are of interest to me, especially when I come across something that can help me improve my hand-rolled ones. :-)
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in thread Writing It Myself, DWIM, and Expectations
Being right, does not endow the right to be rude; politeness costs nothing.
Being unknowing, is not the same as being stupid.
Expressing a contrary opinion, whether to the individual or the group, is more often a sign of deeper thought than of cantankerous belligerence.
Do not mistake your goals as the only goals; your opinion as the only opinion; your confidence as correctness. Saying you know better is not the same as explaining you know better.