First, you probably shouldn't assume that '.' and '..' are the first two directory entries returned from readdir(). AFAIK, this isn't guaranteed, so you should just check for them individually.
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Second, are you mounting the filesystem over a network? For example, if you are using NFS make sure you test it with a hard mount or, if possible, test your code directly on the NFS server. NFS (and possibly other network filesystems) has to coordinate with the client on where in a directory it is reading from. I wouldn't be surprised if it's not exact on a huge directory since I've seen similar NFS bugs in the past.
One way to see if this is a filesystem issue, rather than in your perl code, is to use the 'find' command and count the lines in the output to see if you get inconsistent results.