I couldn't really figure out what are you trying to do - could you explain better how does all this fit together - perhaps post more of the code (like what is the pass() doing)?
Anyway you don't need use DBD::mysql - it's loaded automatically by DBI itself. And so far it seems like something to be solved using JS on the client side.
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