No, I'm not! If I was really telling you what you can or cannot do then I would need to have some power over you -- e.g. the ability to revoke your account, abusing authority, etc. However, I have no power or authority over you. Well, maybe I should say that the only power I have over you is that which you give to me. An obvious example of this is when we let a troll get the best of us.
That is classic troll manouver, trying to refute some behaviour while in the same breath exibiting precisely that behaviour.
Take your own advice.