[me@host]$ perl -ne 'push(@list, "($1) $2-$3") while /\(?(\d{3})?\)?[-.\s]*(\d{3})[-.\s]*(\d{4})/g; END{print join("\n",@list)."\n";}' data.txt 
() 209-4044
(440) 248-2700
(440) 975-0537
() 213-0518
(330) 836-9300
(330) 864-5741
(313) 884-6400
(313) 884-0600
(313) 590-9253
[me@host]$