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In defense of civility
I have been very lucky in this sense. I have noticed that there has been some replys to posts that just say your doing it wrong. I really appriciated when I posted some of my code and KM warned me of security problems and such with them and KM also have me a place to start looking for the answer. KM also gave me some tips that I use all the time now.
There are a lot more people that have helped me out here that I should be thanking but my post would go on forever.