Inteprid, you acknowledge in your "first letter" that you are overly sensitive, and that is certainly evident from all you've written about your struggles here.  It's true that nobody gets along with everyone; just as it makes the world more interesting that we each have our own personality, so, too, can it be a source of conflict, frustration, and anger.

Might I suggest that you take a short rest from Perlmonks, when you get so worked up about it?  It's not to say you're wrong in all of your opinions, but if it is SUCH a source of hostility for you, perhaps some time away will give you a fresh perspective.

Or another good way to deal with frustrations you have, especially if they anger you to the extent that you feel the need to meticulously record every one of them, might be to step back, take a deep breath or ten, and practice letting go.  It very well could be the "attack" you perceived in one case wasn't meant the way you took it.  Sometimes reacting with overt sensitivity causes your judgement to be biased towards seeing emnity that isn't really present.   And even if you are justified in feeling singled out, isn't sometimes the best way to deal with an attack to simply ignore it, and devote your energies toward more positive, worthwhile pursuits?

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