in reply to When it comes to dancing,
... I'm always in the band.
I learned a long time ago that I prefer being on the band side of the floor, reading down Big Band/Jazz standards (any of 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th trumpet books.)
Gals dig the guys in the band, in fact, that's how I met my wife!
Where do you want *them* to go today?