Probably we more or less agree, but have different ways of expressing what we mean. Graham is good, but I think it's dangerous to rely too much on what he says. Just as an example, he seems to have a disdain for the loop macro that just isn't shared by the community at large, and if unduly under his influence one might neglect to use it even in situations where it's clearly the easiest and best solution. But (like Perl) there's room enough in Lisp for everyone, at least IMHO. :-)
One should be careful about relying on tail recursion being optimized in Common Lisp, too. The spec doesn't require it (unlike Scheme which does). I think most implementations will do it under certain but not all circumstances. For example, in the one I use, you need to have debug set below 3 in the code to be compiled. I don't have a good enough sense of history to speculate whether this is because of or the cause of Common Lispers being a lot more willing to iterate than Schemers.
