Words are always empty and can only spark a meaning close to the one you intended with the other party.
I think you might find it quite interesting to read some Wittgenstein on this sort of thing. His writing style isn't particularly heavy (he liked to write in aphorisms), but the thought-style is!
Or you could proceed straight to some of Derrida's work on <a href=http://www.google.com/search?btnI=&q=deconstructionism">deconstructionism...
Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm