in reply to What I'd like to tell vroom on the occasion of his wedding:
I'll just cite one of my T-shirts:
It's better to have loved and lost than to live with the psycho for the rest of your life.
... oh, wait, that's for occasion of divorce ... um ... I guess I'll go with a Sam Keen quote:
We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.