Well, it's possible to see what users you're ignoring by going to ignored users. Also, when you ignore someone, a small italic "you are now ignoring foo" appears at the bottom of the chatterbox nodelet. That's notification. It's easy to ignore, which is both a flaw and part of the point -- as has been mentioned by others, obnixious notification rather spoils the point.
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