First of all, people only down vote against your post, not you personally, so your title is not precise ;-)
I do have one suggestion. If you can spend more time asking questions and answering questions, instead of writing all those discussions, probably you can contribute more to the community. You still can post some discussions once a while…BTW, we all know your intention is good, but too many of them can make people feel a little bit tired.
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