Thanks Aighearach! I don't see why I'm voted down for saying that some people don't want to use some optional feature and that it's okay to choose that if they want to. My point was just that "even if it's right, just saying so without explaining it does little good". I guess I'm a crackpot who deserves all the -- votes coming my way but I can't help but think an increased dose of tolerance for different practices or experience levels in the Monastery would do us all good. Shalom.
p.s. Initiate Nail Removal Immediately!